Thursday, December 26, 2013

PLEASE HELP; How Do I Stop Having Sex ?

I am 19, 200Level and I have been dating a guy in my school for about a year. We are really in love and we hope to get married in five years time. We have been having sex at least twice a week since we started dating. Although we use contraceptives I am really scared of getting pregnant especially because my Mom is a pastor.
I want to stop having sex, at least for now but each time I tell my boyfriend, he says I don’t love him. I don’t want to loose him.

9 comments:

  1. Dat is just a statement been made to torture U emotionally. I believe at dis age, U shuld still be focused on education and not sex. What gives U d assurance that in five years tym, he's still going to be with U. My dear pls rethink Ur ways and start to think with Ur head and not Ur heart. In dis modern day and age, my dear don't let any guy, I mean any guy threaten U with words lyk U don't love me ish. He who loves U will wait for U and besides premarital sex is a no no.

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  2. Lola .that's true

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  3. That's a good advice. Baby sex is not love

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  4. If your mother is a pastor, it means you were brought up in the way of God and you've back slides.You need to re trace your steps back to God and go for counselling.Sex is more spiritual than physical .God will help you.

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  5. Youir bf doesn't love u..why don't u turn the table round and tell him its him who doesn't love u.5 yrs 4rm now...hahahahaha.if u don't want sex n he insists.leave him.

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  6. You shouldn't even waste ur time for nothing telling us rubbish, and remember that u 're wasting our time for creating this statement of imagination.

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  7. I go with d idea dat sex is not love,if ur bf does'nt want 2 stay by u without sex,i advice u 2 js let go of him.

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  8. u guys have really spoken well.they said a word is enough wise,he whom have ear make him hear

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